ok so you dont understand my gibberish, look at the pictures

its not just that one side has the little stub on the end of the lug studs (whats the name?) making it look longer, its also has more threads.
drivers side

passenger side, when rim is on and lugnut is tight, the stud doesnt even go all the way to the end of the lugnut, definately too short so this would be the side that is "wrong"

also, the drivers front wheel sticks out more than the passenger front wheel. so i measured everywhere on the rim and measured the tire and there identical, why the heck is the drivers wheel sticking out more? i had to cut my fenders extra on that side to get it to tuck into the fender and not rub.